Archive for the ‘LOVERS’ Category

There’s a saying in sales that goes like this: “Nobody who bought a drill actually wanted a drill. They wanted a hole.” Isn’t it true that it is not actually the physical person/place or thing which turns us on, it is its/their inherent potential to transform us? All things morph through desire. Identity is transforming and […]


The ground flowed backward beneath us in a long streaked line of pale gray, (Gadzooks! Let’s Go! How we love invitations to be literary-ish and sexy.) (Note to Self: If you do indeed follow Gretel, the White Rabbit or Aslan, be sure to leave a trail of breadcrumbs…) The end of October 2011. NYC. Dear […]


Since everything is none other than exactly as it is one may as well just break out in laughter. Long Chen Pa All is Still. February. Indian Snow Moon. Valentine’s Day. In our igloo cocoons, our lives may seem like snow globes, we swim in bubbles of crystalized emotions, new-earnestly patterned seeds, or emerge into […]


This is the City, and this is the music. Out of the little black boxes an unending river of romance in which the crocodiles weep. Henry Miller, Black Spring With the State of TV New Jersey opening up it’s trench coat and exposing itself as the real-life Fellini movie it always was, I thought more […]


Gimme Love! Gimme 11 Red V-Day Presents!  I will serve faithfully the lover who treats me (and us) to this menu of 11 red perfections I desire for V-Day or anyday. Come alive St. Valentine!  I always confuse you with the Earl of Sandwich so I had to look up your story. Just another saint […]